It seems like everyone who breathes oxygen is on the web trying to satiate his or her pent up emotions. It’s in vogue to play in the dark. One finds solace in getting himself heard. A patient listener is always welcome when the grub of life leaves him sour n sordid. Dating sites and chat sites emerge as a boon as they give wings to fantasy. Life when met face down makes way for a illusory yet fulfilling acquaintance which multiplies into a different concept when fuelled with tender loving care. There are no strings attached, as it’s a medium where myriad shades of one’s personality see light of day. A face-to-face tet-e- tat might not get the desired results as it takes a lot of courage to call a spade a spade. One has the liberty to camouflage them into whatever suits them best. The raw emotion, which somehow gets lost in the grind of life, comes to the forefront. It is meticulous, uninhibited and has no hesitations. It leaves the individual in a trance, which pushes the realities of life to a remote corner.
This alliance happens to fit the bill in spite of the odds. Body odor or the beauty of facial expressions takes a back seat. You never know that the guy when typing might be also digging’ his nose, has left the hand unattended and continue to chat with you. What matters most is availability. Stressful jobs and long hours in the office paralyse the person so much that the web becomes a happening den of activity and thought sharing. Infidelity bounces back with new verve and vigor. It’s all in the garb of friendship. The pure emotion is replicated into something dark and hideous. Unspoken thoughts get an expression and a new world spins a yarn of its own. This world is full of new beginnings, uncarpeted territories of bliss and belonging. It elevates the soul and makes one feel wanted. For some it’s a time pass and for the other an escapade from their monotonous life. So to say the saying’ of a famous economist that man is a social animal finds new bearings. It is an upsurge of whims and a sabbatical of duties. A mirage, which leads people to constant discovery of, unraveled emotions and destinations.
Its good to interact with people but when done with honesty it soothes the soul and does not lead to guilt. It’s always easy to say things when not face-to-face and a mail or chat gives us an opening to hurt a person unawares. It acts as a shield and one takes the other for granted. Somehow when it becomes a habit that’s when hell breaks loose. The privacy when questioned takes an ugly turn.
Life has so much to offer. Expressions alone can weave magic. Sense of touch can speak volumes. When will we take notice of our capabilities and come out in the open. Insecurities and limitations, which is one’s own creation, cramp the growth and capacity of oneself. We just have to realize them. And break that shell which makes us a slave of our prejudices. Its so comforting to interact when hidden as one gets that kick no one is being judgmental about looks, mannerisms and habits. In a way we are playing with ourselves by living a life of someone who is nothing but fake. Its time we realize our worth and face life head on, without pretences and lies but with optimism and zeal. No point in taking refuge in misleading talks and living in a shell. Get alive and get going. Reach out and embrace life.
This alliance happens to fit the bill in spite of the odds. Body odor or the beauty of facial expressions takes a back seat. You never know that the guy when typing might be also digging’ his nose, has left the hand unattended and continue to chat with you. What matters most is availability. Stressful jobs and long hours in the office paralyse the person so much that the web becomes a happening den of activity and thought sharing. Infidelity bounces back with new verve and vigor. It’s all in the garb of friendship. The pure emotion is replicated into something dark and hideous. Unspoken thoughts get an expression and a new world spins a yarn of its own. This world is full of new beginnings, uncarpeted territories of bliss and belonging. It elevates the soul and makes one feel wanted. For some it’s a time pass and for the other an escapade from their monotonous life. So to say the saying’ of a famous economist that man is a social animal finds new bearings. It is an upsurge of whims and a sabbatical of duties. A mirage, which leads people to constant discovery of, unraveled emotions and destinations.
Its good to interact with people but when done with honesty it soothes the soul and does not lead to guilt. It’s always easy to say things when not face-to-face and a mail or chat gives us an opening to hurt a person unawares. It acts as a shield and one takes the other for granted. Somehow when it becomes a habit that’s when hell breaks loose. The privacy when questioned takes an ugly turn.
Life has so much to offer. Expressions alone can weave magic. Sense of touch can speak volumes. When will we take notice of our capabilities and come out in the open. Insecurities and limitations, which is one’s own creation, cramp the growth and capacity of oneself. We just have to realize them. And break that shell which makes us a slave of our prejudices. Its so comforting to interact when hidden as one gets that kick no one is being judgmental about looks, mannerisms and habits. In a way we are playing with ourselves by living a life of someone who is nothing but fake. Its time we realize our worth and face life head on, without pretences and lies but with optimism and zeal. No point in taking refuge in misleading talks and living in a shell. Get alive and get going. Reach out and embrace life.
