Mr. Misogynist stemming out from the sacred tunnel of birth,
nurtured with utmost care & sacrifice, its time you rechristen the flakes
of knowing of all these years. A woman is not a tool of pleasure at your
disposal so you could snatch it at will. The gullible prey which you take her as
she was also the one who raised you up in a different tangent of time &
situation. Demands respect, a say in all the walks of life, literate or illiterate
but she has the identity of her own, as a voice, as an individual as a human,
living like one of the resident’s of the earth. Like you, she has a dream, a
desire and an aspiration to move at will, choose to wear what she wants and exercise
her right of saying no when she is not interested.
Support her in her individual decisions as she supports you
at the time of strife, confusion, neglect and trauma. Give her the environment
she so deserves. Welcome her in your world if she comes as an addition in your
family of sons. Check your sons when they bully her and get their way. She is
no less if you guide her. Tying her down to domesticity, caging her freedom to
express, suppressing her from taking solitary journeys of self awakening and
growth, goes on to show that deep down you are somehow insecure that she may
outshine you. Push her forward instead to try new things. Guide, educate her on
the mindset of your like minded breed instead so as to prepare her for the
worst in life.
Chauvinism never had any takers, be it any gender. So why
glorify it to hatred and turn everyone against you, specifically when it goes
over the top. Cease the deal, man. An empty pomp and show dies a natural death
with a life of no significance. It’s good to be an example of a trend. A trend
that no matter what the woman opts to do, you would care about her being and
will stand by her be it a home, a work place, an overcrowded centre, a
political arena or an inhabitated road. She is a not a commodity to be used, groped,
scandalized, mishandled or to be taken for granted. It could be fun working
abreast a persona who can be the answer to your worry or a regular corporate headache.
Give her the chance to shine. That’s all you need to do. How hard is it?
A life of equality, shared beliefs and healthy nurturing be
it a commercial or a homely setup, rural or urban backdrop, and a safe world
for its species and off springs not only adds on to the economy but in that way
you would be welcoming the fellow natives from other countries to come have a
look and gush that its not impossible if all work as one. Who would want to
come to India, if the women are the objects of carnal desires, sexual crimes
and force? Each one of you with a mindset of pushing the woman down from her
zeniths of usefulness, are losing out on so much by fuelling this devilish
streak which needs to be changed for the better of the society as a whole
stretching to countries across.
A lot has been lost yet a lot can still be achieved. The
time has come to change the outlook and work together in bettering the eclipsed
mindset for a cause of overall good will and unconditional growth of the
species called WOMAN. She is a woman first and the tag of a wife, daughter, or sister
comes SECOND.Its time you realise it and practice it too. Thank You.
